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04th Feb 2022

These are the UK’s top sexual fantasies

Kieran Galpin

BBC

Everyone has sexual fantasies – some people just explore them more

Most people have a sexual fantasy and if Fifty Shades of Grey is to be believed, most of them include bondage and a handsome CEO who doesn’t understand boundaries.

Nonetheless, the sexual wellness experts at Sinful surveyed people’s most sordid sexual fantasies – most of which are not surprising. The report found that 70 per cent of people have fulfilled at least one sexual fantasy in real life, with the most popular being sex outdoors, which 24 per cent admitted to.

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The study also revealed that Cardiff is the most sexually open city, with 85 per cent of people trying at least one fantasy. Birmingham follows the Welsh capital with 83 per cent and Liverpool at 78 per cent.

Surprisingly, London is the most reserved city, with only 34 per cent of people trying their sexual fantasies out in real life. Brighton follows them with 32 per cent and Edinburgh with 31 per cent.

There seems to be little difference between singletons and those in a relationship, with 70 per cent of the former trying fantasies and 80 per cent of the latter.

The most popular sexual fantasies include…

  • Sex outside – 21 per cent
  • 69ing – 20 per cent
  • Threesomes – 18 per cent
  • Lingerie – 17 per cent
  • Sex toys – 17 per cent
  • Sex with a stranger – 16 per cent
  • Roleplay – 14 per cent
  • Sensual massaging – 12 per cent
  • Spanking – 10 per cent
  • Light BDSM – 10 per cent

The most popular sexual fantasies for women include:

  • Sex outside – 17 per cent
  • Using sex toys with a partner – 17 per cent
  • Lingerie – 16 per cent
  • Using sex toys solo – 12 per cent
  • Sex with a stranger – 12 per cent
  • Role Play – 12 per cent

The most popular sexual fantasies for men include…

  • 69ing – 24 per cent
  • Threesome – 24 per cent
  • Sex outside – 24 per cent
  • Sex with a stranger – 21 per cent
  • Lingerie – 18 per cent

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