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6th January 2022
06:45am GMT

Credit: Richard A Chance
“A couple of times when getting close with a woman she'd feel me through my clothes, make an excuse to leave, then never talk to me again. The worst was when I heard through a mutual friend there was a rumour going around their workplace that I was tiny. I know I shouldn't let things like that bother me, but it hurts.
"The most embarrassing experience was my first time. I was silly enough to think any condoms would be fine. You hear how one size fits all but it turns out that's not true. Realising there was no way it was going to stay on was humiliating. I just wanted to run away and hide. I’ve never felt so worthless. She gave me the most disappointed look and we didn't have sex or see each other again.
“I'm not really in the game anymore as I've realised I'm not made for sex or relationships. I have to order condoms online (myone is the website) and it always feels pretty sad.
“For me, being small destroyed any hope of finding someone, falling in love, or having a family. It feels like there's no way to ever fix it, I just got unlucky.”
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“I dated my ex for five years and the first time she saw my penis, her reaction was: 'Is that it?'"
“We lost our virginity to each other but the relationship turned toxic and we broke up. I moved cities and got on Tinder. I felt no one would ever like me because I was fat and had a small penis.
“What I did have was humour and honesty. I started hooking up with women and despite being small, put in the effort. But I still wasn't confident about my sexual ability until I met this one girl. She had slept with more than 50 men so I was unsure, but she said she liked it. That gave me a confidence boost.
“For me, the biggest turn-on is giving a woman pleasure. Once a woman is satisfied, I like to take over, be dominant and be like, ‘that was only part of the show.’
“My advice to guys with smaller penises is don't be afraid to use toys, fingers, and tongue. The feeling of making a woman orgasm is the best.”
Credit: Richard A Chance
“I'm 32, fairly good looking, and popular with women. I've slept with over 20 people and only ever had one complaint. I've never had any problems with girls, in fact, my small penis actually helps me get shags.
“Basically, I know how to make a girl orgasm. I probably put more effort into the girl than what a guy with a big schlong would.
“I knew I was small as a teenager, and I had a choice to make. Either get on with it or be a virgin forever. I learned that in terms of pleasing girls, it's nothing to do with being small. By the time you have built some tension, made her laugh, made her feel good about herself, gone down on her, and made her orgasm, she is having a good time anyway. I figured if girls don’t care then why should I?
“I have a good dick, it's just inches! I never doubt I'm a good lover. To be honest most of my challenges have been shower room related. I'm more nervous about whipping it out in front of the lads, that's something I've just had to get used to.
“My girlfriend is having a baby in a few months and I have never been so relieved to find out it's a girl. The guilt of having a son and passing my ‘issues’ on to him would have been hard to live with.”
*Names have been changed to protect anonymity.
If you’re in need of advice on this issue, or any other mental health-related issue, speak to CALM. If you don’t feel comfortable with a call, begin a webchat and get help in the way that suits you.
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