“I want a threesome with another man – my fiancée is worried it’ll lead to sex with another woman”

JOE’s agony aunt Megan Barton-Hanson wants to help you get laid

The answer: Aaron, firstly I don't know whether it's just the thought of it that you're into.

For me, sometimes the fantasy of doing something is so much hotter than actually doing it.

I don't know how you would feel if you actually saw your missus that you're in love with f****** another guy. That's heavy.

But if that's your thing, baby steps first.

Maybe get that dynamic with just you two, you still create that whole dynamic of her like having all the pleasure and you're in control of that with another guy.

You can do that with like a sex toy and just you. You don't need to rush and bring Bernard from down the road in, let's just chill for a second.

To wrap this up, explore sex toys just you two as a couple before because that can still satisfy that craving that you have, you kinky little b******.

If not, is it really the right relationship for you if you can't settle on this. Ultimately you have to decide is this a deal breaker for you.

Have any dilemmas of your own? Send Megan your questions and concerns here. Ask her anything. Pour your soul out. And maybe, just maybe, you’ll get a shag at the weekend.