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5th May 2022
04:53pm BST

The footage will be shown in the documentary 'Controlled By My Partner? The Hidden Abuse' (Credit: ITV)[/caption]
Dodsworth, best known for her work on ITV Wales, also explains how it took her years to realise she was being subject to abuse.
She said: "I had no idea that the threats and manipulation my ex-husband used for almost a decade were actually a pattern of criminal behaviour.
"He would call me dozens of times a day, wanting to know where I was and who I was with. He would check my phone and even delete contacts from it.
"He would turn up at my workplace, or insist that I leave the studio to eat lunch with him in his car."
In the end, it wasn't Dodsworth's own concerns that prompted her to take action - but that of her children.
"It wasn't until my own children began to fear for my safety that I realised what was going on wasn't normal," she said.
Her 18-year-old daughter Grace said: "This was our reality, this was our lives, it was normal for us. And then all of a sudden we're having all these professionals telling us that's not right, and everything we've known is pretty much gone."
Posting on Twitter, Dodsworth also shared an image that her husband sent to her children after she ended up in hospital.
In the caption, she said: "He couldn't manipulate me anymore. So he tried to manipulate them."
https://twitter.com/Ruth_ITV/status/1521585335125352449
Dodsworth also reveals how "scared" she is about her ex-husband potentially being released from prison later this year.
She said: "In October 2019, I finally called the police and my then-husband was arrested. My ex-husband was jailed for just three years and nine months, but could be released later this year after serving less than half of his sentence - I can't pretend I'm not scared, but I am trying to stay positive."
https://twitter.com/Ruth_ITV/status/1522128398079954945
Speaking on ITV Wales, Dodsworth explained how she hopes the documentary will encourage other victims to speak out.
"Coercive and controlling behaviour can happen to absolutely anyone," she said.
Controlled By My Partner? The Hidden Abuse airs on ITV on Thursday at 8:30pm.
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